Sunday, 31 October 2010
A little late season gardening
The temperature is falling and should go below zero tonight - nothing like a little frostbite with your trick-or-treating. But last weekend was warm enough to harvest the late season grapes (think pre-ice wine), pick some flowers for their visiting Nana and tend the grass (in purple gardening gloves, of course) so it looks its best when it peeks out from the snow next April.
Serendipity 101
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/31/travel/31vietnam-ha-giang.html?src=me&ref=general
This is where I was from Sunday-Wednesday. Where I got bitten by bed bugs and drank corn whiskey and walked with the water buffalo. Unfortunately, my work didn't take me north toward the Chinese border and this world-famous road, but what I saw around Ha Giang was beautiful and made me long for a bike (and a better camera). Photos to follow.
Thursday, 28 October 2010
Wednesday, 27 October 2010
The hallowe'en pronouncement
It was declared fair and square and early this year. Sebastian wants to be a firefighter and Sophie a cat. Yup, there you have it. Father and children were supposed to spend last weekend getting ready. Nana was to add any bells and whistles this Monday/Tuesday (what bells and whistles are there?). They will wear their outfits to school on Friday and then ballet class and then the big night itslef.
And then we will madly be making costumes for the medieval sleep-over (no knights, princes or princesses allowed).
And then we will madly be making costumes for the medieval sleep-over (no knights, princes or princesses allowed).
Sunday, 24 October 2010
Graphic novels
Seb's into graphic novels. These ones haven't hit Toronto yet:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/from_our_own_correspondent/9117296.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/from_our_own_correspondent/9117296.stm
Sunday, 17 October 2010
Gaze Up, Little Susie
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/17/fashion/17TODDLERS.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1
ICT (Information and Communications Technology) is a growing issue around our house, as no screen time, became some dvd time, became some computer time. Now Seb wants to be part of an on-line Disney community. This is such a slippery slope.
I saw a boy (about 8) come out of a store with his mum and walk down the street looking at a handheld device the whole time. Where was the interaction with his community/neighbours? What about time with his mum? Yuck
This week I caught a radio piece on the dwindling of conversational skills as people's reference points get ever wider. The argument is that we are watching a wider array of tv shows/movies/youtube clips, that we each have individulaised newsfeeds and facebook pages, etc. Conversations at parties have become even shallower (and that says something), as you can't assume that people have the same points of reference. I find that depressing. I don't want all same same but what is happening to social cohesion? Can we have all this intimate level diversity and yet still "hang as one"
Top tips, anyone?
ICT (Information and Communications Technology) is a growing issue around our house, as no screen time, became some dvd time, became some computer time. Now Seb wants to be part of an on-line Disney community. This is such a slippery slope.
I saw a boy (about 8) come out of a store with his mum and walk down the street looking at a handheld device the whole time. Where was the interaction with his community/neighbours? What about time with his mum? Yuck
This week I caught a radio piece on the dwindling of conversational skills as people's reference points get ever wider. The argument is that we are watching a wider array of tv shows/movies/youtube clips, that we each have individulaised newsfeeds and facebook pages, etc. Conversations at parties have become even shallower (and that says something), as you can't assume that people have the same points of reference. I find that depressing. I don't want all same same but what is happening to social cohesion? Can we have all this intimate level diversity and yet still "hang as one"
Top tips, anyone?
Busy builders
Usually any mama-go-travelling presents are doled out by Dad in the first few days after my departure and involve toys/activities that the children can play with independently.
Well, this time I really wanted to give Seb his present as it has some 'significance' between us (I am the parental dragon that confiscated every last piece of lego this summer). Together, we can build it back up as lessons have been learnt.
He went to bed with the unopened box and sure enough Saturday morning was spent constructing the various models. Meanwhile, Soph continues to grow into the more sophisticated building toys - here, it's the plastic K'nex sticks.
Friday, 15 October 2010
Can I tell you a secret?
People have started to recognise him - the furnace maintenance guy, our school crossing guard, two of our neighbours...
Wednesday, 13 October 2010
So happy together (part 3)
Finally the actual holiday Monday rolled around and (of course) M worked it, while the rest of us decided to stay home and make a big Thanksgiving dinner and play with our "stuff" - which seems to include tearing all the linens off the bed and making beds around the house - or forts - or rafts, etc.
The afternoon was a bit more structured with the living room transforming into a tea salon (is peppermint tea a diuretic?), some ball hockey with the neighbours, homework and a little bit of screen time.
Mr Earn the Tofu got home on time and Thanksgiving dinner was spread across our table: nut and mushroom roast, cranberry sauce, roasted spuds, roasted squash, roasted green beans & pine nuts in balsamic glaze, roasted elephant garlic, pumpkin pie and all washed down with a glass of red wine (or some such delicious beverage). We spared the turkey, you see.
We started what I hope will be a new tradition of turning off the lights and by candlelight articulating all for which we are grateful. I figure the flame helped us all concentrate.
That other photo is a reminder of how grateful we are to friends and neighbours. Bella the blue donkey (a gift from a long-unseen friend we made in Ghana) and the balance bike (borrowed from newly 4 neighbour, Bruno) were much loved this weekend.
Tuesday, 12 October 2010
So happy together... (part 2)
Sunday was a slow start, as muffins had to be made (and a few consumed) before we headed for the Kortright Conservation Area north of the city.
It's a nice enough place but what it made it truly special and ever so relaxing was the chance to splash - and get one's feet soaked!! - in the brook and then lie on the pebbly riverbed, soaking up the sun's 21 degree rays.
When we finally tore ourselves away from the water, we eased the pain with a massive leaf pile in a bid to bury young miss.
Side trip on the way home to the love to hate/hate to love Ikea for a new duvet cover and pillowcases. Ah, bliss to sink into them and they make our bedroom look slightly less like the family's dumping ground that it actually is.
And then, yet again, we dined outside on some of our own harvest, as well as that of others. This time of year is perfect for appreciating the "fairy lights" that we entwined with our grape arbour. It became dark enough to see stars cut out of our tin lanterns, "stars" in the arbour and stars in the sky. Magical.
Monday, 11 October 2010
So happy together... (part 1)
On Friday night, a mosquito landed on me whilst I dined on a patio. It was that sort of weather all the long weekend. The sunny days and warmish nights had us out and about to the max, and has our garden blooming again!
It was such a jam-packed lovely weekend that I'll have to take it in installments, so I can savour the memories and do them justice.
Saturday morning was Evergreen Brickworks - a farmers' market in a lovely reclaimed urban site (quite similar to our friend Elena's work just outside Turin and thus more rural). It's where that fabulous foliage shot is taken - right to the east of the heart of Canada's largest city - well within city limits.
We saw lots of old faces, even though it was only our 2nd time there. There are only so many small-time farmers, I guess and we frequent our DG market most weeks. I was tempted by the roasted chestnuts but money and time ran out - and besides, it wasn't that chilly.
It was on to ballet for Seb and some gardening for Ms. S. I made some grilled veggie and chevre sandwiches, which we ate with glee on our patio, while late summer, drunken wasps swooped low and slow.
The afternoon was full of sports at the park and a library visit, enabling much bumping into neighbours who had not fled the city. It was topped off by further harvesting from our kitchen garden - a few more carrots, dozens of cherry tomatoes and enough basil and other herbs to feed the block. And we haven't even touched the grapes this year...
We give thanks for so much this holiday weekend
Family
Friends
Work - interesting work that more than pays the bills in fact
Health - physical and mental
Safety
Laughter
Books and learning to read
Public education - that encourages curiousity and compassion
Outings - appliances that make leisure time possible
Carrie - who helps to make the interesting work possible
The list goes on and on...
Saturday, 9 October 2010
Long live the picture book!
In today's New York Times, there is an article recounting the decline of the picture book, but say it ain't so.
Picture books always have and always will have a place in our home. In Nairobi, we were known as the couple with the kids' library and no kids. Our family has a tradition of the "book bag" in which a miserable/sick/rainy-day/celebratory child may dip in with eyes closed and pull out one treasure (admittedly, there are some non-fiction and chapter books now). We must have over 200 new, gifted, pass-me-down, inherited picture books. We are truly blessed and while we have eased off on their purchase, we ain't stoppin' yet!
Some current faves:
The Zlooks - Domique Demers (available Fr/Eng)
Sir Charlie Stinky Socks & the Really Frightful Night - Kristina Stephenson
Little Grey Rabbit series - Alison Uttley
Trubloff - John Burningham
De la peinture partout, partout, partout - Karen Beaumont (Fr or Eng)
One Grain of Rice - Demi
Clown (no words at all!) - Quentin Blake
Une maman pour Kadhir - Andree Poulin (if a child ever wants to know what I do, get this book)
Drew Angerer/The New York Times (October 9, 2010)
Picture books are so unpopular these days at the Children’s Book Shop in Brookline, Mass., that employees there are used to placing new copies on the shelves, watching them languish and then returning them to the publisher.
The shop has plenty of company. The picture book, a mainstay of children’s literature with its lavish illustrations, cheerful colors and large print wrapped in a glossy jacket, has been fading. It is not going away — perennials like the Sendaks and Seusses still sell well — but publishers have scaled back the number of titles they have released in the last several years, and booksellers across the country say sales have been suffering.
The economic downturn is certainly a major factor, but many in the industry see an additional reason for the slump. Parents have begun pressing their kindergartners and first graders to leave the picture book behind and move on to more text-heavy chapter books. Publishers cite pressures from parents who are mindful of increasingly rigorous standardized testing in schools.
“Parents are saying, ‘My kid doesn’t need books with pictures anymore,’ ” said Justin Chanda, the publisher of Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers. “There’s a real push with parents and schools to have kids start reading big-kid books earlier. We’ve accelerated the graduation rate out of picture books.”
Booksellers see this shift too.
“They’re 4 years old, and their parents are getting them ‘Stuart Little,’ ” said Dara La Porte, the manager of the children’s department at the Politics and Prose bookstore in Washington. “I see children pick up picture books, and then the parents say, ‘You can do better than this, you can do more than this.’ It’s a terrible pressure parents are feeling — that somehow, I shouldn’t let my child have this picture book because she won’t get into Harvard.”
Literacy experts are quick to say that picture books are not for dummies. Publishers praise the picture book for the particular way it can develop a child’s critical thinking skills.
“To some degree, picture books force an analog way of thinking,” said Karen Lotz, the publisher of Candlewick Press in Somerville, Mass. “From picture to picture, as the reader interacts with the book, their imagination is filling in the missing themes.”
Many parents overlook the fact that chapter books, even though they have more text, full paragraphs and fewer pictures, are not necessarily more complex.
“Some of the vocabulary in a picture book is much more challenging than in a chapter book,” said Kris Vreeland, a book buyer for Vroman’s Bookstore in Pasadena, Calif., where sales of picture books have been down. “The words themselves, and the concepts, can be very sophisticated in a picture book.”
They can, for example, be written with Swiftian satire, like “Monsters Eat Whiny Children” by Bruce Eric Kaplan, a new book about children who are nearly devoured as a result of bad behavior.
Each year, the coveted Randolph Caldecott Medal goes to the most distinguished picture book published in the United States. (This year it went to “The Lion and the Mouse” by Jerry Pinkney, an adaptation of the Aesop’s fable with luminous images and no words at all.)
Still, many publishers have gradually reduced the number of picture books they produce for a market that had seen a glut of them, and in an age when very young children, like everyone else, have more options, a lot of them digital, to fill their entertainment hours.
At Scholastic, 5 percent to 10 percent fewer hardcover picture books have been published over the last three years. Don Weisberg, the president of the Penguin Young Readers Group, said that two and a half years ago, the company began publishing fewer titles but that it had devoted more attention to marketing and promoting the ones that remain. Of all the children’s books published by Simon & Schuster, about 20 percent are picture books, down from 35 percent a few years ago.
Classic books like “Goodnight Moon” and the “Eloise” series still sell steadily, alongside more modern popular titles like the “Fancy Nancy” books and “The Three Little Dassies” by Jan Brett, but even some best-selling authors are feeling the pinch. Jon Scieszka, who wrote “Robot Zot,” said his royalty checks had been shrinking, especially in the last year.
“We see the stores displaying less picture books, and publishers are getting a little more cautious about signing up new projects,” Mr. Scieszka said. “You can feel that everyone’s worried.”
Borders, noticing the sluggish sales, has tried to encourage publishers to lower the list prices, which can be as high as $18. Mary Amicucci, the vice president of children’s books for Barnes & Noble, said sales began a slow, steady decline about a year ago. Since then, the stores have rearranged display space so that some picture books are enticingly paired with toys and games.
Other retailers have cut shelf space devoted to picture books while expanding their booming young-adult sections, full of dystopic fiction, graphic novels and “Twilight”-inspired paranormal romances.
“Young adult fiction has been universally the growing genre,” said Ms. Lotz of Candlewick, “and so as retailers adapt to what customers are buying, they are giving more space to that and less space to picture books.”
Some parents say they just want to advance their children’s skills. Amanda Gignac, a stay-at-home mother in San Antonio who writes The Zen Leaf, a book blog, said her youngest son, Laurence, started reading chapter books when he was 4.
Now Laurence is 6 ½, and while he regularly tackles 80-page chapter books, he is still a “reluctant reader,” Ms. Gignac said.
Sometimes, she said, he tries to go back to picture books.
“He would still read picture books now if we let him, because he doesn’t want to work to read,” she said, adding that she and her husband have kept him reading chapter books.
Still, many children are getting the message. At Winnona Park Elementary School in Decatur, Ga., a recent book fair was dominated by chapter books, said Ilene Zeff, who organized the fair.
“I’ve been getting fewer and fewer picture books because they just don’t sell,” Ms. Zeff said. “By first grade, when the kids go to pick out their books, they ask where the chapter books are. They’re just drawn to them.”
On a recent discussion board on Urbanbaby.com, a Web site for parents, one commenter asked for recommendations for chapter books to read to a 5-year-old, and was answered with suggestions like the 272-page “Phantom Tollbooth” by Norton Juster and “The Wonderful Wizard of Oz” by L. Frank Baum — books generally considered more appropriate for children 9 to 11.
Jen Haller, the vice president and associate publisher of the Penguin Young Readers Group, said that while some children were progressing to chapter books earlier, they were still reading picture books occasionally. “Picture books have a real comfort element to them,” Ms. Haller said. “It’s not like this door closes and they never go back to picture books again.”
Picture books always have and always will have a place in our home. In Nairobi, we were known as the couple with the kids' library and no kids. Our family has a tradition of the "book bag" in which a miserable/sick/rainy-day/celebratory child may dip in with eyes closed and pull out one treasure (admittedly, there are some non-fiction and chapter books now). We must have over 200 new, gifted, pass-me-down, inherited picture books. We are truly blessed and while we have eased off on their purchase, we ain't stoppin' yet!
Some current faves:
The Zlooks - Domique Demers (available Fr/Eng)
Sir Charlie Stinky Socks & the Really Frightful Night - Kristina Stephenson
Little Grey Rabbit series - Alison Uttley
Trubloff - John Burningham
De la peinture partout, partout, partout - Karen Beaumont (Fr or Eng)
One Grain of Rice - Demi
Clown (no words at all!) - Quentin Blake
Une maman pour Kadhir - Andree Poulin (if a child ever wants to know what I do, get this book)
Drew Angerer/The New York Times (October 9, 2010)
Picture books are so unpopular these days at the Children’s Book Shop in Brookline, Mass., that employees there are used to placing new copies on the shelves, watching them languish and then returning them to the publisher.
The shop has plenty of company. The picture book, a mainstay of children’s literature with its lavish illustrations, cheerful colors and large print wrapped in a glossy jacket, has been fading. It is not going away — perennials like the Sendaks and Seusses still sell well — but publishers have scaled back the number of titles they have released in the last several years, and booksellers across the country say sales have been suffering.
The economic downturn is certainly a major factor, but many in the industry see an additional reason for the slump. Parents have begun pressing their kindergartners and first graders to leave the picture book behind and move on to more text-heavy chapter books. Publishers cite pressures from parents who are mindful of increasingly rigorous standardized testing in schools.
“Parents are saying, ‘My kid doesn’t need books with pictures anymore,’ ” said Justin Chanda, the publisher of Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers. “There’s a real push with parents and schools to have kids start reading big-kid books earlier. We’ve accelerated the graduation rate out of picture books.”
Booksellers see this shift too.
“They’re 4 years old, and their parents are getting them ‘Stuart Little,’ ” said Dara La Porte, the manager of the children’s department at the Politics and Prose bookstore in Washington. “I see children pick up picture books, and then the parents say, ‘You can do better than this, you can do more than this.’ It’s a terrible pressure parents are feeling — that somehow, I shouldn’t let my child have this picture book because she won’t get into Harvard.”
Literacy experts are quick to say that picture books are not for dummies. Publishers praise the picture book for the particular way it can develop a child’s critical thinking skills.
“To some degree, picture books force an analog way of thinking,” said Karen Lotz, the publisher of Candlewick Press in Somerville, Mass. “From picture to picture, as the reader interacts with the book, their imagination is filling in the missing themes.”
Many parents overlook the fact that chapter books, even though they have more text, full paragraphs and fewer pictures, are not necessarily more complex.
“Some of the vocabulary in a picture book is much more challenging than in a chapter book,” said Kris Vreeland, a book buyer for Vroman’s Bookstore in Pasadena, Calif., where sales of picture books have been down. “The words themselves, and the concepts, can be very sophisticated in a picture book.”
They can, for example, be written with Swiftian satire, like “Monsters Eat Whiny Children” by Bruce Eric Kaplan, a new book about children who are nearly devoured as a result of bad behavior.
Each year, the coveted Randolph Caldecott Medal goes to the most distinguished picture book published in the United States. (This year it went to “The Lion and the Mouse” by Jerry Pinkney, an adaptation of the Aesop’s fable with luminous images and no words at all.)
Still, many publishers have gradually reduced the number of picture books they produce for a market that had seen a glut of them, and in an age when very young children, like everyone else, have more options, a lot of them digital, to fill their entertainment hours.
At Scholastic, 5 percent to 10 percent fewer hardcover picture books have been published over the last three years. Don Weisberg, the president of the Penguin Young Readers Group, said that two and a half years ago, the company began publishing fewer titles but that it had devoted more attention to marketing and promoting the ones that remain. Of all the children’s books published by Simon & Schuster, about 20 percent are picture books, down from 35 percent a few years ago.
Classic books like “Goodnight Moon” and the “Eloise” series still sell steadily, alongside more modern popular titles like the “Fancy Nancy” books and “The Three Little Dassies” by Jan Brett, but even some best-selling authors are feeling the pinch. Jon Scieszka, who wrote “Robot Zot,” said his royalty checks had been shrinking, especially in the last year.
“We see the stores displaying less picture books, and publishers are getting a little more cautious about signing up new projects,” Mr. Scieszka said. “You can feel that everyone’s worried.”
Borders, noticing the sluggish sales, has tried to encourage publishers to lower the list prices, which can be as high as $18. Mary Amicucci, the vice president of children’s books for Barnes & Noble, said sales began a slow, steady decline about a year ago. Since then, the stores have rearranged display space so that some picture books are enticingly paired with toys and games.
Other retailers have cut shelf space devoted to picture books while expanding their booming young-adult sections, full of dystopic fiction, graphic novels and “Twilight”-inspired paranormal romances.
“Young adult fiction has been universally the growing genre,” said Ms. Lotz of Candlewick, “and so as retailers adapt to what customers are buying, they are giving more space to that and less space to picture books.”
Some parents say they just want to advance their children’s skills. Amanda Gignac, a stay-at-home mother in San Antonio who writes The Zen Leaf, a book blog, said her youngest son, Laurence, started reading chapter books when he was 4.
Now Laurence is 6 ½, and while he regularly tackles 80-page chapter books, he is still a “reluctant reader,” Ms. Gignac said.
Sometimes, she said, he tries to go back to picture books.
“He would still read picture books now if we let him, because he doesn’t want to work to read,” she said, adding that she and her husband have kept him reading chapter books.
Still, many children are getting the message. At Winnona Park Elementary School in Decatur, Ga., a recent book fair was dominated by chapter books, said Ilene Zeff, who organized the fair.
“I’ve been getting fewer and fewer picture books because they just don’t sell,” Ms. Zeff said. “By first grade, when the kids go to pick out their books, they ask where the chapter books are. They’re just drawn to them.”
On a recent discussion board on Urbanbaby.com, a Web site for parents, one commenter asked for recommendations for chapter books to read to a 5-year-old, and was answered with suggestions like the 272-page “Phantom Tollbooth” by Norton Juster and “The Wonderful Wizard of Oz” by L. Frank Baum — books generally considered more appropriate for children 9 to 11.
Jen Haller, the vice president and associate publisher of the Penguin Young Readers Group, said that while some children were progressing to chapter books earlier, they were still reading picture books occasionally. “Picture books have a real comfort element to them,” Ms. Haller said. “It’s not like this door closes and they never go back to picture books again.”
Friday, 8 October 2010
Wednesday, 6 October 2010
Friends in high places
This time last year, a dear friend published a novel - IN HARDCOVER.
This spring, a friend became a Commissioner on Kenya's Truth, Justice and Reconciliation Commission.
Last week, the father of a university friend was installed as the Queen's representative in Canada.
Another university chum is going to be a Supreme Court Justice by 2025, mark my words.
I don't think all this power reflects well or badly on me, just that I am growing older!
Wonder what this bunch and their friends will get up to.
Tuesday, 5 October 2010
Beer and popcorn
Monday, 4 October 2010
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